✖the frame of ocean's mind✖: October 2008

Friday, October 31, 2008

get sumthing nice a min ago..

sumthing nice n i think tis is freakin true..hav a look on it..
對別人好，就是快樂自己…
1.某天，小張要去相親，因為沒有看過對方，擔心她長得太醜，於是交代朋友，十分鐘後call他的手機，這樣他就可以藉機遁逃。到了約會地點之後，小張發現女方驚為天人，於是心想，等一下手機響不要回就好了。沒想到，美女的手機這時候響了起來，美女聽了兩秒後，對小張說：『對不起，朋友有急事找我，我要先走了……』
2.有一個男人在派對上對男主人說：『今天的美女真多，要是待會兒我泡上一個，你可不可以把樓上的房間借我一用。』主人說：『那你老婆怎麼辦？』這人說：『放心，她不會想念我的，我只失縱一下而已。』主人說：『我不是說這個，我是說十五分鐘前，她才向我借了樓上的房間。』
3.有一個老光棍，他並沒有什麼嗜好，只是喜歡在睡覺前喝一點葡萄酒自娛。然而，他發現這幾天有人偷了他的酒。他便懷疑偷酒的是他的佣人，於是就把酒倒出來，再裝入他的小便。但裝小便的酒，仍然每天減少。他很不高興的把佣人叫來，責備一番。『不，我並沒有偷喝！』佣人說：『我是想做味道更香更可口的菜給您吃，所以我每天燒菜時，都加了一點在裡面。』

從這三則短文中各位有沒有發現什麼共通之處呢？沒錯，你怎麼對別人，別人就怎麼對你；你給別人什麼，別人就回報你什麼。說得更白一點就是，你給別人的，其實是給自己的。就像我在前面說過的，不管你丟出去什麼，或是…想了、說了、做了什麼，最後都會回到你身上，不是嗎？你給別人的，其實是給自己…
自食惡果的事說都說不完，讓我們再聽下面的故事:
1. 在一家簡陋的酒館裡，正在喝大杯啤酒的李先生，突然覺得內急，他匆匆忙忙站了起來，又想到上廁所時，酒可能被別人偷喝，猶豫一會後，他找到一張紙，寫上：《我吐口水在這裡！》，把它放在杯子下面，然後才放心的去上廁所。過了幾分鐘後，李先生回來時，他看到另一張紙寫道：《我也吐了一口在這裡！》。哈！哈！哈！
2.我聽說從前有個人，他很不喜歡喝咖啡，但是他太太並不知道，他從來沒告訴過她。她非常喜歡喝咖啡，所以，每天早上都會順便為他… 準備一個熱水瓶的咖啡，跟他的便當擺在一起。他一直都帶著那個便當和熱水瓶去工作，但是因為他很節儉，所以每天晚上都會把那個熱水瓶帶回家，裡面的咖啡完全沒有被動到。他知道太太很喜歡喝咖啡，為了要省錢，所以當她沒看到的時候，他會將沒有喝的咖啡倒回咖啡壺裡。晚上的時候他會用喝咖啡使他睡不著的理由把它推掉。就這樣他每天都重複這麼做。有一天，她的太太認識了另一個男人，他們計劃好要毒害他，以獲取巨額的保險金，於是她每天早上都放少量的砒霜在他的熱水瓶裡，日復一日，直到最後她毒死了她自己。
你給別人的，其實是給自己的。你說是不是呢？你所給予的，都會回到你身上…如果，你對人冷淡，別人也會回以冷漠；如果，你經常批評別人，你也會接收到許多的批評；如果，你總是擺一張臭臉，沒錯，別人也不會給你好臉色。所有你所給予的，都會回到你身上。套句詩人奧登（W.H.Auden）的話：『人受惡意之作弄，必作惡以回報。』如果你陷害別人，哪天你也會遭人陷害。
同樣的道理……
當你帶給別人歡樂，你就會得到歡樂；帶給別人祝福，你就會得到別人的祝福；如果你經常讚美別人，不久你也會聽到有人在讚美你，《你給別人的，其實是給自己的！》。你讓他人經歷什麼，有一天你也將自己經歷；你怎麼對待你的父母，將來你的孩子也會怎麼對待你。
我想許多人一定聽過，格林童話中有一則關於一位老人和兒子住在一起的故事。老人的耳力已經不行了，眼睛也看不見，顫抖的雙手經常把飯菜洒得滿地，碗也常打破，兒子夫婦倆感到非厭煩，給老爸爸一付木製碗筷，把他趕到廚房幽暗的角落，不准和大家一起用餐。有一天，兒子看到自己的兒子用刀片消木頭，他好奇的問孩子要做什麼。結果孩子回答：『我在替你準備將來要用的木碗、木筷。』從此以後，年老的父親又回到餐桌上吃飯，家人也都非常孝順他。
農夫的哲理：
地球是圓的，整個世界都在繞著圈子，不論你傷害誰，就長遠來看，你都是傷害到你自己，或許你現在並沒有覺知，但它一定會繞回來。所以，如果你佔了別人什麼便宜，先別得意，很快你就會為此付出代價；反過來，若是別人對你做了什麼，你也無需氣憤，不必去報復，任何他們所做的，他們都將自食惡果。
《凡你對別人所做的，就是對自己所做的。》
這是歷來最偉大的教誨。不管你對別人做了什麼，那個真正接收的人，並不是別人，而是你自己；同理，當你給予他人，當你為別人付出，那個真正獲利的也不是別人，而是你自己。有一個農夫的玉米品種，每年都榮獲最佳產品獎，而他也總是將自己的冠軍種籽，毫不吝惜地分贈給其他農友。有人問他為什麼這麼大方？他說：『我對別人好，其實是為自己好。風吹著花粉四處飛散，如果鄰家播種的是次等的種籽，在傳粉的過程中，自然會影響我的玉米品質。因此，我很樂意其他農友都播種同一優良品種。』
他的話看似簡單卻深富哲理，凡你對別人所做的，就是對自己所做的。所以，凡事你希望自己得到的，你必須先讓別人得到。
保證有效的秘方就像那個農夫一樣，
如果你想要得到冠軍的品種，就要給別人冠軍的種籽。
你若想被愛，就要先去愛人；
你期望被人關心，就要先去關心別人；
你想要別人對你好，就要先對別人好。
這是一個保證有效的秘方，可以適用在任何情況。
如果你希望交到真心的朋友，你就必須先對朋友真心，
然後你會發現朋友也開始對你真心；如果你希望快樂，
那就去帶給別人快樂，不久你就會發現自己愈來愈快樂。明白了嗎？我們所能為自己做的最好的事情，就是去為他人多做點好事。
《己所欲，施於人。》
凡你想給予自己的經驗，就給予別人；
想別人怎麼對你，就怎麼對待別人。
感恩過去…把握當下…創造未來…

behind d faces..

jus now was msn-ing v my bro..not really feelin OK anymore..act i really dun like ppl who keep buzzin around my ear..tat make my heart feel so uncomfortable n im such a useless..(i noe they say/do so is jus for my own good,but tat will make me feel very very unbreathable u noe..)yeah,as many ppl told me,>u must work hard for it,u cant ask for help everytime,u should grow up,tis is da time u should start independent,work hard if u dun wanna look down by others,y u dun do it like tis,y u do it tat way..?grhhhh..i HATE myself!!!
from da conversation,i oso realize tat outsiders will NEVER noe da real reality behind da whole "story"-happiness,rich,poor..etc...u will never noe all da rich ppl how they work hard for it n how da poor ppl suffer from hunger,sadness behind da happiness,da complicated behind da BIG family,da POLITICS behind da scene,da lonely-ness behind a ppl..etc..da feelin n da stage of sufferin from everyone u will never never realize it..
so pls pls pls,use da other point of view 2 look on others..dun judge ppl straight away from ur sight..u may hurt others from da way u act..think from da better way..it helps urself coz u wont get hurt easily..
tis is da way i use it always..it make u free from those HEADACHE problems..
lets get started from DUN CARE so much~~"boat till shore will straight automatically"(translate in mandarin pls)XD..
hav a good day guys!

Tuesday, October 28, 2008

another new post again

i learn chiffon n brownies on tis week..

nice?i made da pattern..

after my sunday class,i stay overnite at wennie's place..coz we r goin 2 make moist chocolate cake n Ganache toppin..heres da ingredients for Ganache toppin..
1kg fresh cream
1.5kg chocolate coins
50g butter unsalted
n here da steps>>
1st,boil da fresh cream v small fire..then,off da fire..
after tat,

tis Ganache toppin is very very super nice,but da calories oso freakin nice..it oso can take as jam 2 spread on top ur bread..trust me,its damn delicious!! on Mon,i went 2 Pavillion v wennie them..then i decided 2 deliver a BABY there..here r da stages of me deliver my BABY..
choose my BABY>>

hesitatin..wheather choose tis

OR tis...

after u choose ur BABY,then fill ur BABY v cotton~~

n lastly pay ur baby~~

while i look around,i found 2 lil cute big nose soft toys..tats freakin cutee..

after tat,we walk out of Pavllion 2 walk walk n c c..on da way,we pass by LVuitton n saw tis on their display items..tats freakin creative..

cool rite?

few hrs later,we headed bek 2 Pavillion..n i saw sumthing nice in Tittot..all bout PIG~~

there represented sumthing good like,self relaxation,self confident,self reliance,a jewel in hand,self satisfaction,self content n many others but i jus like tis few coz it look so so so freakin cuteeeeee..

then we headed 2 klang 2 hav our tea+dinner..Bak Kut Teh..da ppl who intro us say da stall open at 4 pm,so we reach there at 3.55pm but da owner say they open at 5.30pm..so,while waiting,we went 2 da nearest shop-Econsave..at there,i found sumthing interesting..tat is>>

before i forget 2 tell u guys,my skul using these huge butter unsalted..did u guys seen tis huge b4?>>

n wanna intro a new dessert 2 u guys..it hav nangka,sea coconut,longan,peach,mix fruit(can),milk..so it is full v kinds of VITAMIN..thumbs up for tis new dessert..try it up..(i think those who went vietnam b4 will noe wat is tis...)n i try it from my teacher..she made tis for us..i love u Liz..

Hello Hello..(the name)

n tis is my BABY i deliver yday but i put it birthdate on 28th of Oct coz im born on da 28th too..hehe..n da Henry is Derek fren-wennie nephew Baby..

i pin a pink ribbon on my Lil Derek coz tis month is da breast cancer month..n from Pavillion i oso bought a pink bag for da breast cancer donation..from THOMAS PINK..

nice?

tats all for 2day..buai~~

Friday, October 24, 2008

nothin 2 blog bout

HIGH SCHOOL MUSICAL 3 IS OUT 2day!!who wanna date me out..?XD..hope i can watch it nex week..
shift 2 my grandma house 2nite,coz class is ON on weekend..cant online for few days..
will update soon~~hav a great weekend guys!

Thursday, October 23, 2008

new hairstyle new life

2day wake up early in da mornin n take breakfast v wenwen n zanzan coz yday stay overnight at their place..then sit at their place n discuss v them wat color should i dye da nex coz im so frustrated v my hair color ad..so after discuss v them then i went 2 da nearest saloon 2 DYE my hair..woohoo!!after 3++hrs,da result out..i like it so so much..mmm..tis is da real cour i like..then i went 2 their house n take a short bath n here da onli i show 2 u guys..
tadaa~~~~

Tuesday, October 21, 2008

AGATHA LIM

so bored at home n find sumthin nice in others blog..
♫ A: hot
♫ B: loves people and sex
♫ C: good kisser
♫ D: can kick ur butt
♫ E: has gorgeous eyes
♫ F: loves people wild and crazy
♫ G: very outgoing
♫ H: stick to one
♫ I: is really sweet
♫ J: is very sexual
♫ K: crazy
♫ L: very good kisser
♫ M: Makes dating fun
♫ N: loves to laugh and smile
♫ O: has one of the best personalities ever
♫ P: popular with all types of people
♫ Q: a hypocrite
♫ R: funny
♫ S: makes people laugh
♫ T: smile to die for
♫ U: is loved by everyone
♫ W: very broad minded
♫ V:[sorry missing]
♫ X: never let people tell you what to do
♫ Y: is loved by everyone
♫ Z: can be funny and dumb at times
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so mine is
♫ A: hot
♫ G: very outgoing
♫ A: hot
♫ T: smile to die for
♫ H: stick to one
♫ A: hot

♫ L: very good kisser
♫ I: is really sweet
♫ M: Makes dating fun

jus havin sum lame fun here..teehee..

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edit:
follow my bro visit his fren who is in Assunta jus now..bcoz near his pancrease there got a tumor n nit 2 operate..n early in da afternoon,he jus go do sum tubing thing n hurts his trachea..then now nit him 2 drink 2 jug of water b4 his operate which is 2 clear his stomach..i look him damn sufferin v drinkin a cup of water..i noes is freakin hurt,n bcoz his trachea hurt so he is so difficult 2 drink tat 2 jug of water eventho he is in thirst..in a meanwhile,a nurse took a cd for him n tat cd is a record of his tubing thing..after tat he open n let us watch da cd v his laptop..oh my GOD,tat damn GELI u noe n luckily i not yet eat anythin or else i will vomit it out..
GOD,pls dun let me hav those stuff happen in my life ok..?
tomoro he will hav his 5 hrs operation 2 cut da tumor out..hope everything is ok n hope he get well soon..

Monday, October 20, 2008

boring day~~

another boring dayy!no schoolin+no study=BORED..so jus playin v sum photo n morphin..hehe..looks very funny bcoz all da thin artist will bcum chubby face when im morphin v them..haha..
n tis is da pic of me b4 morph v those artist..